Friday, November 30, 2007

Ben's in the Dallas Morning News

Boy appearing in parade after recovering from rare, painful illness
7-year-old appearing in parade recovered from rare, painful syndrome
12:00 AM CST on Friday, November 30, 2007 By JENNIFER AREND / Special Contributor to The Dallas Morning News



MIKE STONE/Special ContributorShannon and Michael Moore (right), shown with children William (left), 3, and Benjamin, 7, were terrified when Ben was hospitalized with Stevens-Johnson syndrome. 'The biggest fear was: 'Is he going to be OK?'' Mr. Moore said. 'And then we wanted to know whether there would be permanent damage.'
In August, 7-year-old Benjamin Moore came down with strep throat, which then turned into pneumonia.
After taking antibiotics and steroids to combat the illness for several days, the Fate boy woke up to find his mouth swollen.
"I knew something was wrong," said his father, Michael Moore.
Immediately, Mr. Moore went to his computer and Googled Ben's symptoms. What he found was horrifying.
"I saw photos of people with SJS," he said, referring to Stevens-Johnson syndrome. Mr. Moore made sure not to show the photos to his wife, Shannon. "I was just hoping Ben had eaten something."
Stevens-Johnson is a severe hypersensitivity complex that can cause extensive red rashes that can develop into blisters.
"It's not a common disorder," said Dr. Bharath Thankavel, a pediatric hospitalist at Children's Medical Center Dallas who said he became attached to Ben as he treated him. "It's an immune response that forms a very complex allergic reaction that affects the skin and mucous membranes."
Ben, a second-grader at the Rockwall school district's Celia Hays Elementary, was one of the children chosen to ride in Saturday's Neiman Marcus Adolphus Children's Parade in downtown Dallas.
Renee Caskey, a child life specialist at Children's, nominated Ben for the honor.
"It was a very painful and really tough diagnosis," she said. "Ben coped really well."
Among other things, SJS can be caused by a viral infection or by a reaction to medicines. The syndrome has a wide spectrum of severity, and Ben's case was relatively mild, primarily affecting his mouth. However, SJS can spread, damage organs and cause blindness and even death.
"Often, you don't find the cause," Dr. Thankavel said, adding that SJS patients are treated almost as if they had second- or third-degree burns. Once patients are treated, they are advised to avoid certain medications to prevent another SJS occurrence.
"The biggest fear was: 'Is he going to be OK?' " Mr. Moore said. "And then we wanted to know whether there would be permanent damage. We also thought, 'Oh, my God, don't let him see himself.' "
Mr. Moore said Ben's mouth "looked like a grenade had gone off in it." Blisters covered the lining to such an extent that he couldn't eat or drink, and talking was virtually impossible.
Every night at the hospital, Ben's mouth had to be scrubbed out. It was painful, and Ben didn't want his mother to have to see his upsetting treatment. So he asked his dad to stay with him at night.
"This really did tear Shannon up," Mr. Moore said.
Even now, a few months later, Mrs. Moore said recalling the ordeal is emotional for her.
"I don't know if I can talk about it without crying," she said softly.
As Ben's mouth would heal, his lips would seal shut – forcing doctors to separate them with a scalpel. Ben spent 12 agonizing days at Children's.
Mrs. Moore said one way of dealing with Ben's condition was to spread the word about the relatively unknown condition to her friends. She is part of an online network of Collin and Rockwall county mothers, and she made sure to warn them about SJS.
Ben's condition took several weeks to heal, and he missed the first two weeks of school. For the first few weeks back, his mouth still looked red and cracked, and Mr. Moore said some classmates teased Ben, causing him to withdraw.
Slowly, Ben returned to his normal self and got back to playing football. His parents said he's doing well in school.
Ben is looking forward to riding in the parade Saturday. "I think it's going to be fun," he said.
Jennifer Arend is a Dallas-based freelance writer.

Sunday, November 25, 2007

Well as is tradition at our house....we decorated the house for Christmas on the day after Thanksgiving. This is something that the whole family looks forward to and enjoys. We were even more excited this year though, because it will be our first Christmas in the new house! I finally have a staicase with spindles that I can decorate. Oh how I have longed for that ever since I was a little girl. So we looked through all the old decorations and decided what we needed new. We went to Garden Ridge and bought some garland for the stairs and a huge Santa to put up in the niche in the stairwell. Other than that....we had many great decorations already. We did buy new stockings as well though. So now we are all set! The house has a warm, inviting, holiday feel and I love seeing the boys faces light up whenever we plug the trees in. Christmas is truly all about the kids.

The boys tree

























The family tree

























The niche in the stairwell.















The mantle.















The stairs.


























Wednesday, November 21, 2007

Look Alike Meter



Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Oklahoma Football Tournament

Well Ben has successfully competed in his first ever football tournament. Usually the kids his age don't go because in Oklahoma kids in Ben's divison can be up to 10 yrs old. So usually Rockwall sends their older 1A players and then bring down some of the younger 2A players. We weren't planning on going but Ben was doing so well in the practices that we decided along with the coaches that Ben should go. We headed out Friday morning, the 16th and were in OK by dinner time. The kids all met in the lobby of the hotel and we headed over to registration. Our first game was Sat. morning. They won the first game so that meant another game at 2pm. Broke and had some lunch with another player and his family. They lost the 2nd game (rigged I tell you!) and so that meant another game at like 7pm. They won that game so we were up and at the field's again Sunday morning for another game. Had they won that game (and would have if not for bad calls) then we would have played for 3rd place. They lost but the boys really put up a good fight and gave the other team a good hurting. Guess that is what TX football is all about....hit hard and make the other team cry first. lol We headed to the OK aquarium on our way home and that was a fun time. The kids got to see some sharks up close and personal and they were excited about that. All in all it was a good time and we will go again next year. Ben will be a Sr. player for 1A next season so that means more playing time and he is excited about that prospect.

Lining up before the 1st game. (he is #19)














He's out there somewhere! lol








































Ben going out as captain before the game.





























Ben and Will.


























Rockwall Jackets 2007 Oklahoma Tournament team.

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

William had his first music program of the year last night. Actually it's his first ever program! He is in a Mom's Day Out program on Tuesday and Thursday and they had a little music show for the parents. It was really very cute! He did really well and sang really loud so that we could hear him. His best friend, Jonathan, goes to the same school but is in a different class. Jonathan did wonderful as well. Here are some pics that Jonathan's mother snapped.

































Will and Jonathan after the show.

Saturday, November 10, 2007

A new son for my dear friend.


















My very dear friend, Shannon, had her 2nd son this past week. She delivered him on November 7th at 12:06pm. Cooper was 8lb 13oz and 20 inches long. Born with a full head of brown hair. She has another son, Carson, who will be 4 soon. Carson is so excited to have a new baby brother to love and to play with. Carson and Cooper are almost the same age difference that my 2 boys are so I know that in a couple of years those two are going to be the best of friends! So welcome to the world Cooper! Looking forward to seeing you grow up!

Tuesday, November 6, 2007

Group gathering for Eastside Moms

We had our family playdate this past weekend at Shannon's house. She has such a great home for entertainig and she still had the bounce houses up as well. It was a great Thanksgiving feast with all the trimmings. Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday because I am a true foodie. I LOVE to eat and it's the one time of year that gorging yourself on food is not only expected, but acceptable. The food was excellent and the company was wonderful as well. Mike and Ben got in some football time, Will had a great time on the big slide, and I got my pumpkin pie fix a little early. Only 16 more days until Turkey day!

The bird















Mike assists Scott in the carving.















Michael and Ben playing some catch.















Will enjoying the big slide.

Thursday, November 1, 2007

A week of tricks and treats!

We had a fun filled Halloween week! William had his costume parade and party at school on Tuesday. It's realy cute! The kids all dress up and then parade up and down the worship area and get treats from the pastor and others. Then they head back to class and have a party later in the day.

William and his best pal, Jonathan.














Getting treats from the pastor!



















Class photo














My little skeleton :)



















On Halloween day we headed over to my friend Shanz's house for a Halloween play date. She is the best hostess....always! She had 2 bounce houses up and served lunch for all. When we left she had goody bags for the kiddos and even a treat for us moms. She is a special lady. :)

The bounce houses...too cool.














William bouncing with friends.






























Playing with the trains with Blake.














He wanted to get a pic of his shirt..glowing. lol





















After dinner we headed out to trick or treat in our neighborhood. Since we just moved here in May, we weren't sure what to expect. We were shocked by how "all out" our neighborhood goes! There were hundreds of kids...no joke! Many of the houses were decorated fully and a few even had "haunted houses" set up in their garages. There was a man driving around the neighborhood in a hurse wearing a werewolf coustume...priceless. One house even does a haunted hayride...for free! While you wait in line they have movies playing on an outside projector for the kids to watch. Very, very cool! We cannot wait to see what they all do for Christmas.

Ben as an executioner and Will as a skeleton.



















Trick or Treating!



















Ben in front of one of the "haunted house" garages. Will was too scared.



















One of the cooler houses in the neighborhood.














Same house.



















I call this the "horor movie house".















Freddy peeking out! Creepy!














The girl from The Grudge. SCARY!!



















Got the boys home and off to bed. Then I watched a little LIVE Ghost Hunters. I love that show! Hope you all had a fun filled Happy Halloween!!!